Thursday 28 May 2015

We offer doctors, of any size...


                                  
A big and "real" one,
supreme family pride,
Mr. PhD (at Boston University!!!),
in near record time,
with congratulations aplenty (not only for his cool shades)...

and a little one
surely ridiculous 
(all this silly fuss from nursery, 
though serious pre-school, to primary?), 
but  surely beautiful and extremely happy 
(smiles and beauty abound here)!

What's in common?
Being the most beautiful in sight, the wonderful hired gowns, the super-boring ceremony...

P.S.
As to the other students, no ceremonies for Anna yet, but we're eagerly waiting for her "real" one soon, nor for Michele either, but we can celebrate his astounding report card (all "A"s apart for one "B" in Kinyarwanda), especially considering he joined the class mid-year and then had to catch up with the far higher level of the school and the harder programme.

Birthday...

...GIRL!
(yes, she still looks young, but no, she's not 7: the candles stand for 3 (white) and 4 (blue) = 34)
(the cake she made for herself (Daddy too tired and busy) is so chocolatey and good that Mickey has already booked it for his birthday)
 Presents?
- A packet of butter (not spread-margarine, which we usually buy as the real thing is offensively expensive for the lifestyle of the people we work for)
- Dinner at the Italian Restaurant-Pizzeria (this gift pleases the two boys as well, but they deserved it for the hard work they put in the house decorations, hanging across the living room in the picture below!)
A collective thanks to everyone for the greetings!

Saturday 23 May 2015

updating update

We're trying to catch up with this tricky blog (it kept telling us for weeks and weeks that the latest post was very old, when we thought it was just a few days...) and we believed we were there (tale of the last month, reassurance, projects, galleries...), but then we realised there was something missing, so now we've added also the latest bible reflections: hope you enjoy them!

Monday 18 May 2015

Reassuring...

Those following the international news and having an even vague notion of African geography might be a little worried about possible effects of the current events in Burundi on neighbouring Rwanda, but we can reassure you all that at the moment there's nothing to fear: it is absolutely true that what happens in Burundi has always some influence on our country and unfortunately the same issue as that behind the current unrest there will come to the fore here in 2017, at the end of the president 2nd term, hopefully without the same developments, but it is also absolutely clear that the situation here is completely stable (and could not be otherwise given the president's super-tight grip on any socio-political aspect, a grip which can be very easily compared to a dic...orship, hence the dots).
At present, the only effect is the influx of refugees, bad for them, as most of the fleeing Burundians moved from extreme poverty to nothingness or to refugee camps, and also not so good for Rwanda either as it is already one of the most densely populated country on earth and suffering badly from that, so adding more people to the equation is not going to improve things at all...
But the four Lions in Kigali have nothing to fear, they only have to keep finding the best way to help the needy who live around them and if the chances occur to do something for the refugees, though the camps are really far away and we've got already our hands more than full with our lot here.
If you are sincerely interested in the situation south of the border, one of our links points to a blog by Simon, a great Christian worker who's been dedicating his life to the people of Burundi for 16 years and therefore has got a lot to write about it: definitely worth a read, all the time but especially these days!

Sunday 17 May 2015

F.L.A.P. = Fabulous Labels of Amazing Projects

Please welcome the wonderful names of our hopefully wonderful projects!
(apologies for Mattia's craze for acronyms...)

Y.E.A.S.T. 
 = Youth Empowerment: Arise from the Street and be Transformed
Daily evening meetings for poor youths, some supported for school, some for vocational training, some for work, some just hoping for future support, some just enjoying the group. 
We do:
- ENGLISH (with Mattia, to improve the level of students and teach something to those not in school)
 - ICT (with Norbert, the brother-father of 4 - in Amizero computer room, kindly donated by a German Charity years ago and only sporadically used by the disabled school)
- KINYARWANDA (as they must learn to read and write their language better - with Mattia's paid assistant, Ildephons, our former watchman now relieved from that slavish and useless job thanks to this new role)
- CHESS (not just for fun, but to teach them to think, something completely absent from their education system - with Mattia, as the real family expert, Mr.PhD, is a little too far to help - tournaments coming soon!)
- GOSPEL CHOIR (with Elena, to learn songs they then sing at Mattia's English Service and maybe soon also at the main service)
- CHRISTIAN DANCING (with some highly talented dancers who are part of the Church's dancing team)

Current numbers: around 25 per evening, with a total of around 35 in the group

GO.R.I.L.L.A.S
= GOod results In Life, Learning And Sport
Children's programme, with sport in the morning (simple things in our garden) and lessons  in the afternoon ((English with Mattia, Kinyarwanda and Maths with Ildephons, so at least they can learn maths instead of struggling with the language), as they go to school on alternate shifts; this way not only they get help to improve their poor school marks and some fun and training, but also they've got something to do rather than go to the street or idle away the day at home (though for some it's hard to go away from the daily chores at home, so the morning shift is not always well attended).

Current numbers: 8-12 in the morning, 15-20 in the afternoon; total over 40

I.S.A.I.A.H
= I Study And I Also Help
Some of you might know the "work for food" programmes some charities implement in poor countries, especially during famine times, to have people earn their aid rather than receiving it as beggars and at the same time contribute to the community's development by working for community projects (building/repairing schools, roads, churches...).
Well, let us introduce our "work for school" version of that model: 10 youths in vocational training, plus 3 funded for driving licence course, come a couple of days a week to work, either for our projects (physio-room: stones for cement, painting of floor and walls, varnishing of the ceiling; Paper Furniture Container: emptying, cleaning, painting, lock-fitting; wheelchair assembling...) or as gardeners in our garden (so we don't have to pay the gardener any more and we can use that money for their school-fees).

F.R.E.E.
= Families Rejoicing in Economic Empowerment
Rejoicing might be quite far away, but at least we'd like to try and improve the lives of the families of the children we're supporting for school fees; considering many have to pay rent and feed many children, the project can't solve all their financial difficulties, but the idea is to make them self-reliant at least for what we are instead paying for at the moment, that is school fees and stationary; once they 're started, that is once we're sure their new small business really works, we'll encourage them, through training and interest incentives, to save small amounts every day in order to have the necessary sums when school starts next term-year, as at the moment, quite understandably and as it is common in poor countries, people have no idea whatsoever of financial planning.
Economic activities we plan to offer (some trials are just starting), by providing the starting material and advice:
farm animals = a goat (to sell kids) and-or a few hens (to eat/sell eggs)
bicycle = to work in the transport business (of people and goods) 
trading = to sell food (staple: flour, rice, sugar...) from home, serving the neighbourhood
charcoal = to sell charcoal (cooking fuel) 
cooking = prepare and sell cakes and other food widely bought by the locals 

As you can understand, we need funds for this project, so if you like it, start thinking how you can help and soon we'll be able to give details of costs for each project (roughly 50euros / 40 GBP); we really believe this is the way forward, as it is empowerment rather than just aid: if it works, the model works as a one-off support, not a constant supply of food, stationery, clothes, school fees, medical expenses...

C.H.O.C.O.L.A.T.E.
= Capernaum House of Children Only Less Able Though Extraordinary
Do you remember the house whose roof was removed by the paralytic's friend to let the stretcher in, for Jesus to meet him and heal him? That's the reference we had in mind when choosing the name for the new physio-room (to be inaugurated soon) because we plan to use it not merely to treat patients (there are already physiotherapy services in the country, though maybe too expensive, but we cannot  bypass the existing structures and provide free or cheaper services, otherwise it's just another unsustainable form of aid) but to offer parents' training (actually started two weeks ago), teachers' training (same) and most of all Community Based Rehabilitation training (to form families, friends, community members so that they can identify, counsel and help local disabled people) and possibly also a sort of cooperative of families with disabled children, for them to help each other not only as to advice but also financially, thanks also to the Paper Furniture workshop where they will be able to produce both extremely cheap, nearly free assistive devices for their children and other items to be  instead sold for profit.

Thank you...

...all for the birthday greetings!
38 years and 12 days...

older? no denying it!

decaying? well, I get tired more quickly, but at the same time I'm always finding strength to keep trying doing good; physically, I might not be as fit as when I was training properly, but I'm getting lighter by the week, so I can still hold my ground when running, even with young guys (maybe , as pointed out by Mr.PhD, because I cheat by sprinting against under nourished locals?)

wiser? sometimes maybe so, sometimes not at all, especially as to family matters (ask poor love-starved wife and poor children, too often and too harshly rebuked)!

happy? never been happier than when I manage to provide some hope-help-relief to the desperate people I meet every day, or when I listen humbled and nearly in tears to the thanks and praises I receive from children and mothers, but the feeling doesn't last long, when I find out about the next miserable situation, when I hear the next child listing their problems and asking for support, when I discover the next injustice, when I realise how much I have and how much they lack and instead would deserve...

better? surely not more patient or more self-controlled, which would be quite welcome, but other aspects, especially as to faith and dedication to others, are improving...





Monday 11 May 2015

50 days in 50 words (per chapter)

SKids
Enlarged family: no pregnancy, only (!) 4 children from the street to our place, or better first in 2 tents in the garden, then the rainy season stopped our camping project and we found a room in Amizero Special Needs school; they take meals (either we cook or they do it on the traditional fireplace) and showers and wash clothes at our place (mostly outside).

EASTER
Saturday event for children: we planned it, led Sunday School for 2 Sundays to prepare sketches, then led the event, Mattia telling the story of Easter and then explaining it (with translation), Elena and Mattia leading one sketch each, the kids joining their age-group; at the end, drinks and cakes for everyone (150).

FAMILY EASTER
We treated us to chocolate-bars: an imported rarity we bought only for the special occasion, for ecological/sustainable-reasons; we enjoyed lunch inviting our 4 adopted sons to our table and for dinner we were invited to a very poor house by a brother-father with 4 siblings we had just started to support.

HOLIDAYS
One week for our children: some time together, some with our adopted sons, but mostly still busy with our activities, as the needs of Mattia's children have no holidays and we had to supervise the building of the new physio-room, trying to finish during the two weeks of local school holidays (we didn't...)

VISITING TRIPS
During the holidays and on a Saturday, Mattia took 3 of our 4 adopted sons to visit their families and went also to check how our first reintegrated boy is doing, also to start a new project of family support, buying animals for his mother; on one occasion Pastor Eraste and Michele joined the tour, on another Sam&Michele; one time we saw a lake, the next we swam in one!

STRESS LEVELS RISING
The above mentioned supervision of the building process not only cancelled any idea of Easter break, but also kept us busy and stressed for the rest of April, as did buying material and chasing plumbers and water-officers in an attempt of suppling running water to Amizero School and fixing all toilets. The non-cooperation or the clashes with some figures of the local church didn't help either...

RAIN
Not to forget Ireland, the rainy season, started in March, kicked in seriously in April, with a daily hour of deluge and temperatures decreasing significantly morning and evening, which means respite from the heat and a rare usage of jumpers for us, but a feeling of "cold" and frequent illnesses to the locals. Real problem: mosquitoes abound!

MEMORIAL WEEK
from the 7th of the April, to commemorate the 21st anniversary of the genocide, people are off in the morning and some go to meetings; slogan: REMEMBER, REUNITE, RENEW; we took all our 6 children to the Memorial in Kigali, with museum and the resting place of 250,000 bodies: first time for all of them (we went in August), all quite moved.

For all of this and more, and especially for some picture-stories of the visiting trips, please check the galleries page!